Have you thought much about all the pieces of your personality? Like the ones you love and the ones you don’t like?
Or is it more of a subconscious effort to suppress the parts that you don’t like – or think the world won’t like?
I recorded the below video to explain the work I’ve been doing with the leather and the lace sides of my personality (or should I say, twin personalities, as I am a Gemini), and how they’ve been at war inside me.
Funny enough, we watched an episode of Supernatural last night where Charlie was showing up as Dark Charlie and Good Charlie.
I related with that Good Charlie version, as she was telling the boys how boring it was to be “good” all the time. This, too, is how I was feeling for a long time, but I was scared to let out my dark (leather) side.
Even though she’s the more fun, adventurous, and interesting one. I explain in the video why I’ve been suppressing her.
An activity and explanation of rebalancing your two sides.
In the video, I also highlight an activity that really helps with understanding and embracing both sides of yourself.
Of course, this is only the beginning. If you do the activity and are ready to step into your best self without judgement, you’ll want to next do the Restore mini-course. It will give you direction on how to bring back those pieces of you and feel more comfortable in your skin.
I’d love to hear what you come up with for this video activity. Please send me a message with your story.
Are you Tired of Silencing Yourself?
Does it feel like your words are trapped inside you, waiting to be let out? Perhaps you…
- stay quiet when you want to speak.
- shy away from giving presentations.
- feel your throat tighten up during times you have the opportunity to truly express yourself.
These are all symptoms of having a blocked Throat Chakra. But don’t worry – it’s time to set your voice free.
Introducing Throat Chakra Healing for Self-Expression
A free throat chakra healing meditation
With this meditation, you will feel:
- more confident giving presentations
- like THE expert while teaching others
- calm and collected while you share ideas in the workplace
- comfortable being yourself in public
Many people spend years in talk therapy to figure out why they don’t feel confident speaking up. You’ll understand the energetic reasons (and clear them) in less than 30 minutes.
Results from Using this Meditation:
- Better relationships — no more people-pleasing, shallow connections, or unspoken resentment. You’ll feel seen, heard, and respected.
- Career growth & money — confidence in your voice creates confidence in your value. Whether it’s a promotion, a raise, or your business, people listen when you speak with power.
- Charismatic presence — instead of shying away from others, you’ll command attention simply by being yourself.
This is the exact energy healing technique I use with my Reiki clients to dissolve years of blocked expression. Now, it’s yours—completely free. Best of all, you can use it over and over again. Get it below.
Your voice creates your reality. When you restore its power, you don’t just speak differently—you live differently.
