Have you thought much about all the pieces of your personality? Like the ones you love and the ones you don’t like?
Or is it more of a subconscious effort to suppress the parts that you don’t like – or think the world won’t like?
I recorded the below video to explain the work I’ve been doing with the leather and the lace sides of my personality (or should I say, twin personalities, as I am a Gemini), and how they’ve been at war inside me.
Funny enough, we watched an episode of Supernatural last night where Charlie was showing up as Dark Charlie and Good Charlie.
I related with that Good Charlie version, as she was telling the boys how boring it was to be “good” all the time. This, too, is how I was feeling for a long time, but I was scared to let out my dark (leather) side.
Even though she’s the more fun, adventurous, and interesting one. I explain in the video why I’ve been suppressing her.
An activity and explanation of rebalancing your two sides.
In the video, I also highlight an activity that really helps with understanding and embracing both sides of yourself.
Of course, this is only the beginning. If you do the activity and are ready to step into your best self without judgement, you’ll want to next do the Restore mini-course. It will give you direction on how to bring back those pieces of you and feel more comfortable in your skin.
I’d love to hear what you come up with for this video activity. Please send me a message with your story.
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