Have you thought much about all the pieces of your personality? Like the ones you love and the ones you don’t like?
Or is it more of a subconscious effort to suppress the parts that you don’t like – or think the world won’t like?
I recorded the below video to explain the work I’ve been doing with the leather and the lace sides of my personality (or should I say, twin personalities, as I am a Gemini), and how they’ve been at war inside me.
Funny enough, we watched an episode of Supernatural last night where Charlie was showing up as Dark Charlie and Good Charlie.
I related with that Good Charlie version, as she was telling the boys how boring it was to be “good” all the time. This, too, is how I was feeling for a long time, but I was scared to let out my dark (leather) side.
Even though she’s the more fun, adventurous, and interesting one. I explain in the video why I’ve been suppressing her.
An activity and explanation of rebalancing your two sides.
In the video, I also highlight an activity that really helps with understanding and embracing both sides of yourself.
Of course, this is only the beginning. If you do the activity and are ready to step into your best self without judgement, you’ll want to next do the Restore mini-course. It will give you direction on how to bring back those pieces of you and feel more comfortable in your skin.
I’d love to hear what you come up with for this video activity. Please send me a message with your story.
Are you Tired of Silencing Yourself?
A free throat chakra healing meditation
Does your authentic voice feel trapped inside you, fearful of someone knowing the real you?
Do you…
- stay quiet when you want to speak?
- swallow your truth to keep the peace?
- say “yes” when every fiber of your being is screaming “no”?
Each time this happens, you lose another piece of yourself.
Your voice is your power. When you don’t use it, you cut yourself off from confidence, boundaries, the success and relationships you deserve.
Introducing Reclaim Your Voice
A free throat chakra healing meditation
With this meditation, you will:
- Clear the energetic cords of your past that keep you stuck in silence.
- Speak with unshakable confidence—at work, with loved ones, and in public.
- Stand firm in your boundaries without guilt or fear.
- Show up unapologetically as yourself—and feel comfortable doing it.
Most people spend years in talk therapy to figure out why they are addicted to people pleasing. You’ll understand the energetic reasons (and clear them) in this simple meditation.
Results from Using this Meditation:
Better relationships — no more people-pleasing, shallow connections, or unspoken resentment. You’ll feel seen, heard, and respected.
Career growth & money — confidence in your voice creates confidence in your value. Whether it’s a promotion, a raise, or your business, people listen when you speak with power.
Charismatic presence — instead of shying away from others, you’ll command attention simply by being yourself.
This is the exact energy healing technique I use with my Reiki clients to dissolve years of blocked expression. Now, it’s yours—completely free.
This is for you if…
- You’re tired of being ignored or downtrodden.
- You’re done sacrificing your expression for other people’s comfort.
- You’re ready to step into bigger opportunities, healthier relationships, and a more empowered life.
What people are saying about the Reclaim Your Voice meditation:
“Wow, this meditation brought some much needed and, dare I say, bad@$$ relief! Not only did I meet my throat chakra, but she was a warrior, and she stood strong and tall, and she was very brave. [In the meditation], she courageously said and did what she has been yearning to but not knowing how to do for so long.” – C
“[During the meditation], my dad and mom both showed up. But then my middle school track coach, who I actually really liked, was there. He told me ‘you are a lot better at things than you think you are.’ I guess it was related to not getting picked for many of the track sports. It was nice to be able to clear up that way of thinking about myself that I didn’t even know I was holding on to.” – E
Your voice creates your reality. When you restore its power, you don’t just speak differently—you live differently.
Get the free 30-minute energy healing meditation that you can use over and over again.
